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100 questions to ask your partner

Nimbus : A hundred questions to know each other even better… I’m already crying. Happy tears, obviously.

Whether you’ve been together three weeks or thirty years, there’s always something left to discover. These questions come from Baromo’s games for two: each of you answers for yourself, then guesses the other’s answer. No right answers, just good surprises.

Everyday life together

1. After an argument, you… 🗣️ Talk it out · 😤 Sulk · 🤗 Go for a hug
2. If we adopted… 🐱 A cat · 🐶 A dog · 🪴 A plant
3. What makes you feel loved… 🤲 Gestures · 💬 Words · 🕰️ Time
4. At night, the duvet… 🌯 I steal it · 🤝 We share · 🔥 I kick it off, too hot
5. Best bit of how we met? 👀 The first look · 😂 The first giggle fit · 📱 The first text
6. Our song would be… 🎻 A slow dance · 🪩 A dance-floor anthem · 📺 A cartoon theme tune
7. In bed at night, you… 📖 Read · 📱 Scroll · 💬 Chat away
8. Our greatest couple skill? 😂 Laughing fits · 🍽️ Eating well · 📺 Finishing series
9. Someday, we live… 🏙️ In the city · 🐓 In the countryside · ⛵ On a boat
10. Your side of the bed? ⬅️ Left · ➡️ Right · ⭐ The middle, starfish-style
11. The ideal pet name? 💕 Sweetheart · 🧁 Something edible, like Cupcake · 🐻 An animal, like Teddy
12. Our favourite place together? 🛋️ Our sofa · 🍴 Our go-to restaurant · 🗺️ Somewhere far away
13. When you wake up, you’d love… 😘 A kiss · ☕ Coffee in bed · 🤐 Ten minutes of silence
14. The perfect date? 🧺 A picnic · 🍷 A cosy restaurant · 🕯️ A night in
15. A declaration of love, rather… 💌 A hidden note · 🎆 A grand gesture · 👀 A look says it all
16. Our next trip for two? 🗼 A capital city · 🛖 A cabin in the middle of nowhere · 🚐 A road trip
17. Our anniversary? 🎉 We party · 🍽️ A quiet dinner · 🙃 We both forget it
18. Watching an episode of “our” show alone? 😇 Never, it’s sacred · 🤫 Secretly · 😈 Done it three times already
19. Out and about, we hold… 👫 Holding hands · 💪 Arms, linked · 🚶 Nothing, side by side
20. The surprise that would melt you? 🥐 Breakfast in bed · ✉️ A letter · 🎶 A playlist made just for you
21. Cooking together is… 🏆 A dream team · 🌪️ Chaos · 😋 One cooks, one tastes
22. At a party, the two of us are… 🧲 Glued together · 🦋 Off mingling separately · 🚪 Gone early, together
23. Our couple photos? 📷 Hundreds · 💎 Rare and precious · 🌫️ Only blurry selfies
24. Our classic squabble? 🌡️ The thermostat · 📺 The remote · 🍫 The last square of chocolate
25. Sweet texts? 💬 Every day · 💭 When it crosses our mind · 🥰 An emoji says it all
26. Our dream home? 🏙️ A city loft · 🌻 A house with a garden · 🌳 A treehouse
27. Dancing together? 🛋️ In the living room · 🪩 At parties, in front of everyone · 🙅 Never, thank you
28. The perfect hug? 🫂 Long. Very long. · 🎁 A surprise one · 🛋️ On the sofa
29. The gift that sticks? ✂️ Handmade · 🎟️ An experience · 🔧 Something actually useful
30. Our best memory? 🧳 A trip · 🤣 A fit of giggles · ☕ A tiny ordinary moment
31. After a day apart… 🗣️ We tell each other everything · 🤗 A silent hug · 🍝 Food first
32. In ten years, we… 🌏 Travel the world · 🏡 Live a quiet life · 🛌 Still wear PJs on Sundays
33. The first text of the morning? 🌅 A sweet good morning · 😂 A meme · ☕ Nothing before coffee
34. The ideal Sunday? 🛌 Lie-in · 🥾 A walk · 🥞 Brunch
35. Dream holiday? 🏖️ Beach · 🏙️ Big city · 🏕️ Nature
36. Tonight, rather… 🎬 Movie · 🍸 Night out · 😴 Early night
37. The best gift? 🎁 A surprise · ⏳ Time together · 💌 Kind words
38. In the kitchen, you’re… 🧑‍🍳 Star chef · 🥕 Sous-chef · 🛵 Delivery app
39. In the morning, you’re… 🔋 A live wire · 🧟 A zombie
40. A €50 note falls from the sky? 🍝 Restaurant · 🐷 Piggy bank · 🎁 A gift for them

Do you really know me?

41. What you remember most from our first date? 📍 The place · 🍽️ What we ate · 😅 The nerves
42. The sweet gesture you love most? 🤗 A hug · 💌 A little note · 🤝 A helping hand
43. The pet name you like best? 💗 Sweetheart · 🧁 Something edible, like Cupcake · 🔤 Just the name, thanks
44. Your dream date for two? 🧺 A picnic · 🕯️ A candlelit dinner · 🎲 A game night
45. The song that reminds you of us? 🎻 A slow one · 🪩 A dance hit · 🐥 A ridiculous song
46. Your first impression of me? ⚡ Love at first sight · 🧐 Curiosity · 🤨 “Who’s that, then?”
47. In ten years, you see us… 🏙️ In the city · 🐑 In the countryside · 🏝️ At the end of the world
48. After a squabble, what calms you? 🗣️ Talking it out · 🫂 A hug · 🌿 A quiet moment
49. Your comfort food? 🍝 Pasta · 🍲 Soup · 🍕 Pizza
50. What makes you cry at the screen? 🐠 A cartoon · 💔 A love story · 🐧 A wildlife doc
51. Your secret little fear? 🕷️ Spiders · 🌑 The dark · 🤡 Clowns
52. Your morning drink? ☕ Coffee · 🍵 Tea · 🧃 Juice or water
53. Your dream job as a kid? 🚀 Astronaut · 🐾 Animal doctor · 🌟 Pop star
54. You go to bed around… 🌆 Before 10 pm · 🕛 Around midnight · 🦉 Way later
55. Your go-to excuse for being late? 🚌 Traffic · ⏰ The alarm · 😁 None, just a big smile
56. Your favourite snack? 🍪 Sweet · 🥨 Savoury · 🍇 Fruit
57. Your ideal holiday? 🏖️ Beach · 🏔️ Mountains · 🌆 Big city
58. The superpower you’d pick? 🫥 Being invisible · 🦅 Flying · 🧠 Mind reading
59. In the shower, you sing… 💿 An old hit · 📺 A cartoon theme · 🤐 Nothing, total silence
60. Your favourite animal? 🐈 Cat · 🐕 Dog · 🦦 Otter
61. Your worst kitchen disaster? 🍝 Pasta in one solid lump · 🔥 The charcoal cake · 🚨 The smoke alarm
62. What you lose most often? 🔑 Keys · 📱 Phone · 🎧 Earphones
63. At a party, you’ll be found… 🪩 On the dance floor · 🍢 By the snacks · 💬 Deep in conversation
64. Your perfect Sunday? 🛌 Under the duvet · 🥾 A walk · 🥞 Brunch
65. Your favourite colour? 💙 Blue · 💚 Green · 💛 Yellow
66. Your favourite dessert? 🍫 Anything chocolate · 🍓 A fruit tart · 🧀 Cheese counts as dessert
67. Your most useless talent? 🎭 Impressions · 🎵 Knowing every lyric · 😜 Pulling faces
68. How many snoozes? ⚡ Zero, up at once · 😪 Two or three · ♾️ We stopped counting
69. Your favourite way to move? 🚶 Walking · 🪩 Kitchen dancing · 🛋️ Sofa to fridge and back
70. Your kind of series? 🔍 Crime · 😂 Comedy · 🐉 Fantasy
71. The cuisine you can’t resist? 🍕 Italian · 🍜 Asian · 🏠 Home cooking
72. Your pizza? 🍅 Margherita · 🧀 Four cheeses · 🍍 Pineapple, proudly
73. Your favourite way to get around? 🚲 Bike · 🚆 Train · 👣 On foot
74. The fruit you avoid? 🍌 Banana · 🥝 Kiwi · 😋 None, all welcome
75. Reading, for you? 📚 A passion · 📖 Now and then · 🍽️ Mostly restaurant menus

Which of us…?

76. Who made the first move?
77. Who said “I love you” first?
78. Who steals the duvet at night?
79. Who gives the most surprise kisses?
80. Who’s the bigger romantic?
81. Who falls asleep first, mid-sentence?
82. Who’s always late, with a golden excuse?
83. Who opens the fridge ten times and takes nothing?
84. Who looks for their phone… while holding it?
85. Who gets the giggles at the worst possible moment?
86. Who cries at cartoons?
87. Who always needs the last word?
88. Who finishes the crisps “by accident”?
89. Who gets lost even with GPS?
90. Who negotiates with the alarm ten times?
91. Who spoils the ending without meaning to?
92. Who laughs at their own jokes before the punchline?
93. Who sings off-key with total conviction?
94. Who talks to the plants?
95. Who says hello to every dog in the street?
96. Who packs at the very last minute?
97. Who’s always cold, even in summer?
98. Who’s always too hot?
99. Who sends texts as long as novels?
100. Who sends five-minute voice notes?

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